A supportive and empowering workbook to help you heal unresolved childhood wounds, cultivate self-compassion, and form healthy and lasting connections. If you experienced trauma or neglect as a child, you may struggle with depression, anxiety, loneliness, and low self-esteem in adulthood. You are not alone. Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs)—including early emotional neglect—affect millions of people, and have led to many of the greatest unaddressed public health problems facing our world today. If you struggle with shame or lack of confidence, or if you have difficulty creating or sustaining healthy relationships with others, take heart. There are techniques you can learn to heal the pain of your past and take charge of your future. This workbook will help you get started. Grounded in the evidence-based approach of internal family systems therapy (IFS), this workbook provides a supportive, effective framework for continued healing. By “reparenting” the parts of yourself that were affected by childhood trauma, you’ll learn to build unwavering self-compassion, overcome common relationship and communication challenges, and form healthy and lasting connections. You’ll also find soothing meditations, experiential exercises, and other skills to help you regulate your nervous system, so you can break free from the survival mode you’ve been stuck in for years. Finally, you’ll be inspired by real-life stories from other people who have been through similar experiences, and who’ve successfully overcome their trauma. If the unresolved wounds of your childhood are negatively affecting your life as an adult, you deserve help right now . With this compassionate guide, you’ll learn to reparent your inner child, move past emotional pain and trauma, and start building the secure, fulfilling, and connected life you truly deserve. You are worth it . “Martina Williams and Kyle Wehrend’s book on reparenting is a beautiful, easy-to-read, powerful book on Internal Family Systems (IFS) and its amazing skills to help us to find the power and ability to bring ourselves back into a secure attachment within, reparenting ourselves with the love and healing we may not have received as children. It helps us to remember that it is never too late to have a happy childhood.” ―Kay Gardner, MS, LCPC , IFS Institute Senior Lead Trainer “Martina and Kyle offer a warm, practical, and neuroscience-informed approach to reparenting from within. Using real examples from their own lives and decades of clinical experience, they walk you through everything you need to know about IFS to begin working with your own parts.” ―Risa Adams, MD , IFS Institute Co-Lead Trainer and coauthor of It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way “Martina and Kyle are beautiful and gentle souls who have created a heartfelt companion for your IFS journey in their book, An IFS Reparenting Workbook . The book is solid with both dependable and concise guidance, offering clear language and key exercises to support readers on their IFS journey. Navigating one’s internal world can be both confusing and overwhelming, especially when working through childhood trauma. This workbook not only presents clear guidance and experiential exercises, but Martina and Kyle also accompany you on your journey through their shared encouragement, normalization of important moments, and the realizations they offer from their own healing experiences.” ―Chris Burris, LMFT , IFS Institute Senior Lead Trainer and author of Creating Healing Circles “This is the IFS workbook you’ve been waiting for! Kyle and Martina offer a clear and personal introduction to the IFS model that is filled with practical exercises, supportive meditations, and individual stories that make the work come alive. Information about attachment and neuroscience will help you to deepen understanding of how your parts are formed, burdened, and ultimately healed.” ―Elizabeth Parsons, MD, CCFP , Certified IFS Therapist, and coauthor of It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way “Martina and Kyle draw on both their clinical experience and their own healing journeys to show that struggles like anxiety, perfectionism, and low self-esteem are not flaws, but the burdens of wounded parts longing for care. With warmth and clarity, they offer readers a way to build relationships with those parts and bring the healing presence of Self.” ― Richard C. Schwartz, PhD , founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) “This workbook guides readers through the application of IFS in a clear, accessible way, with experiential exercises and real-life examples that bring the model to life. If you’re looking to integrate parts work into your daily life and to tend to the parts of you that need healing, this is a resource you’ll return to again and again.” ―Leslie Petruk, MA, LCMHC-S , IFS Institute Lead Trainer and director of the Stone Center for Counseling and Leadership “This workbook guides readers through the application of IFS in a clear, accessible