Between Two Poles reflects on Christine P. Dela Rosa’s experience cycling from reluctant classmate, to roommate, to best friend, to caretaker with Lien Le. At first, the two are an inseparable pair, growing because of each other, until Lien’s first episodes of bipolar disorder hit, and the two struggle to hold on to the magic that once made their connection so special. Through childhood flashbacks, scene retellings, and personal essays, Christine shares a confluence of emotions associated with high expectations from cultural norms, the union and breaking apart of a codependent friendship, and first-hand experiences with the mental healthcare system in America. No psychology textbook is this personal nor live conversation this open. This story is an opportunity for those who have been in similar roles to embrace and heal the feelings they had during their experiences. Utilizing pop culture references and a steady flow of inner monologue, Christine writes an easy read against heavy mental health themes. ***** Legacy Book Press LLC is a traditional publisher of personal stories told via non-fiction such as memoir, autobiographical fiction, poetry, or a combination. Between Two Poles starts with the author finding a meaningful friendship and then shifts gears into the struggle of the discovery that one's dearest friend struggles with mental illness. Yes, we discover just how far the narrator will take the obligation of friendship and loyalty. It is about how easily we can slip into the auras and psyches of the people we surround ourselves with. The book is kind and nonjudgmental if we do find ourselves going too far overboard and at risk of losing our own grip on reality. I have lived the story of this memoir, as have so many other people. Thank you, Christine. Stories heal people and this one healed me." - Becca Ironside
Author, Health Educator, Pelvic Physical Therapist Between Two Poles is a stunning coming-of-age story, an intimate reflection of Dela Rosa finding herself as a best friend and losing herself as her best friend's caregiver. Introspective and unflinchingly candid, she lifts the veil on the cultural expectations of her Filipino heritage, how to support someone through the mania of bipolar disorder, and the uncomfortable journey of losing control in an uncontrollable situation. Part memoir and part self-help, Dela Rosa captures the nonlinear highs and lows of what it means to give and receive love, to others and oneself. - Julie Nguyen
Writer, trauma-informed relationship coach, and professional matchmaker Throughout the book, the author questions the actions and responsibility of everyone who comes into contact with Lien: her friends & family, first responders, medical providers, hospital staff, as well as Lien and herself. The author is not afraid to confront her role in Lien's life and the treatment of her illness. She brings in explorations of her upbringing - her family background, cultural and spiritual values - in considering the past and why she may have made the decisions she made. It is a tender, humorous and moving story that speaks to the beauty of friendship and the human spirit in the face of adversity. - Angela Siew
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