A psychologist shows women how they can stop needing men--and negotiating with them--and start loving them, offering day-to-day psychological strategies for single and married women designed to help them discover the path to true love. Tour. Clinical psychologist Sills, the best-selling author of Excess Baggage (Viking, 1994), argues that women are now on the edge of yet another change in their relationships with men. According to Sills, women are ready to "love more and need less" from men. This will involve the acts of carrying around less anger, accepting our partners for whom they are, and simply relishing the emotion of loving. Although Sills is careful to state that these changes do not mean that women should not stand up for themselves, many casual readers will probably read this into her words. Also, some readers will find this approach too simplistic and threatening to accept. Even so, Sills's ideas are not without merit. Purchase where demand warrants.?January Adams, Franklin Twp. P.L., Somerset, N.J. Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc. Judith Sills, Ph.D., is a contributing editor to Family Circle. Biting the Apple: Women Getting Wise About Love