So, you are not prejudiced when it comes to love. You don’t have a colour preference when it comes to who you want to have sex and/or babies with, who you want to be married to, spend the rest of your blablabla with and so on, right? Well, one day the moon goes up, you go to bed, the sun rises, you wake up and what do you know? Your knight in shining armour (or limo, or tight spandex, or neon sweatpants or whatever ) turns up. Lust quickly descends into heart-thumping waves of quivering, unbridled passion ( see? I read a lot of Mills & Boon in my youth ) and love blooms into sheer bliss until ... you realise that HE IS NOT YOUR KALA (COLOUR) Dear White Husband (s) is a light, short, humorous guide that dives into the delightful and bumfuzzling world when (African) black and white ‘relationship’ worlds collide. It’s a collection of some of the funny, weird, wry, ironic, eccentric and very OTT cultural differences and challenges that most black (African) girls and their Caucasian other-halves will immediately recognize - with many of these little (and not-so-little) moments leaving us in chuckles, WTF-ing and TSK-ing in exasperated face-palms and semi-permanent eye rolls. Join in as we navigate these cultural faux pas and relatable anecdotes in order to laugh, reflect, understand and find common ground and embrace our differences – one colourfully confusing day at a time.