Do you believe that you have a good marriage? The answer seems simple enough. I think, for the most part, we all consider our marriages to be pretty good. However, as we look at the marriages around us, we don’t see many, if any, that we would want to emulate. So, the question becomes, will our children someday look at our marriage and think the same thing? What would have to be different to change how our children view our marriage? Can we just continue down the same paths we are on and hope for the best? If we can just stay married, will that be enough, or does the number of years a couple is married even correlate to a marriage being successful? What are some things we can do to change the course of our marriage, now, so that we don’t end up having a marriage like those we see around us? Can we change the course of the broken marriages in our family and give our kids something better to strive for? How can we become the best versions of ourselves and grow closer to God and our spouse? What all of these questions boil down to is this: What does a healthy, successful marriage actually look like, and how can we achieve it? That is what we are going to begin to explore in this workbook. This is a workbook intended for couples to do together. There are questions at the end of each chapter for individuals to fill out about themselves. Each person should have their own workbook, so that they can take notes and answer the questions for themselves. It is then intended for the couples to discuss the answers to their questions together at the end of each chapter. This can also be used in a small group setting, with a mentor, or with a counselor. Each couple should do the work and discuss the answers at home first. Then as a group or with a mentor/counselor go over some of the questions and what everyone learned or stood out to them in that weeks lesson. There must be caution doing this workbook in a group though, because the content in this workbook can be challenging and personal. So, leaders must make sure they are protecting the members of their group and allow those in the group to share as they feel comfortable doing so, especially in a mixed gender setting. Guidelines should be put into place to protect the members and build safety in the group. If this is done in a group setting, leaders should look up guidelines for recovery groups and have each member commit to those guidelines prior to starting the lessons. This workbook has the potential to make a real difference in peoples lives and their marriage, if they allow it to. Doing the work will be challenging, as it is intended to be, but also extremely rewarding and freeing. I pray this workbook encourages everyone who goes through it, and that their lives and marriages are strengthened because of it.