In writing this, I held numerous conversations pertaining to the topics within this book and more topics that have been excluded. My conversations were with men and women from every background, race, and culture. What I discovered is that most men will not keep it truthful with themselves and amongst each other when the conversation pertains to relationships and love. I can only imagine the deception most men oppose on women. Particularly, in regard to their feelings about you and the direction they would like to take their relationship with you in. This has led me to want to address the levels of men, so women can really differentiate a male from a mere man, and a mere man from a grown man. I am of the elite class of grown men so the views detailed in this book are from a grown man's perspective. Every topic in this book is a raw, brutally honest, no cut no chaser conception of the heart and mind of grown men; who have substance behind their concept of life, love and relationships. As you turn the pages you will grasp the depth of a grown man’s mental, and learn that all men are not who they profess themselves to be. Some of the topics also addressed questions asked by females concerning their biggest curiosity about men. I have asked women, “If you can ask a man a question and know that you'll get the honest to God truth, what would that question be?” A lot of their questions were redundant in nature, so I placed the general concept of the questions asked into a single question to address the general issue of concern within each topic. My hope with writing this book is that the issues addressed here will bring you closer to the men in your life. Considering that you will now be able to identify and understand life, love, and relationships from a man's point of view without misconception. As you turn the pages of this book, there are some issues that some people take offense to. This will lead to criticism. And I can accept that. But in return, I need for you to be objective and accept “my” truth, “our” truth—as grown men—as it is given in these pages. Because it is the reality of men therefore and going forward, I invite you into an intensified understanding of the heart, mind, and soul of men from a GROWN MAN’S perspective.