Grief doesn’t follow rules. And it doesn’t only arrive after death. Gutsy Grief is a book about grief beyond death: the loss of identity after burnout, the end of a relationship you thought would last, the unraveling of a career you built your sense of self around, or the future you expected but will never live. It is for anyone navigating change, loss, or life disruption that doesn’t fit neatly into stages, timelines, or checklists. After John Jeff Hutter’s father died by suicide, he discovered decades of journals and letters his father had written over more than thirty years. Reading them did not bring closure. Instead, they created an ongoing conversation across time that reshaped how John Jeff understood grief, meaning, and what it means to keep becoming human. Those writings form the narrative backbone of Gutsy Grief , grounding the book in lived experience rather than advice or theory. This is not a step-by-step guide to healing, and it does not promise resolution. Instead, Gutsy Grief offers companionship through grief by using storytelling, language, and reflection as ways of making sense of change while you are still inside it. The book honors the nonlinear reality of grief and explores how emotional agency, curiosity, and honest expression can help people move forward without bypassing pain or forcing positivity. Blending memoir with research-informed insight from happiness studies and organizational behavior, Gutsy Grief speaks to the quiet losses many people carry while continuing to function: identity loss, unrealized futures, moral injury, and the grief of outgrowing who you used to be. It treats sharing not as confession or performance, but as a meaningful act that helps us understand ourselves and recognize one another. Inside the book, readers will explore: Grief beyond death, including identity loss, burnout, and major life transitions. - Why grief is something you learn to listen to, not something you “get over.” - The nonlinear, often messy reality of healing and meaning-making. - Storytelling and language as tools for processing loss and change. - Emotional agency and self-trust during periods of uncertainty. - Recognition and companionship as more useful than advice or instructions Gutsy Grief is for readers who feel out of sync with conventional grief narratives, who are tired of being told to “move on,” and who sense there is meaning here but do not want it spoon-fed or packaged in toxic positivity. It is also for those supporting others through grief and wanting language for experiences that are difficult to name. Grief is universal. The way we make sense of it is deeply personal.