This indispensable, step-by-step guide gives you effective strategies for attracting tht special someone by helping you get in touch with the adventurous, playful person you really are deep down. Witty, inspiring true-life stories and very sound advice make this an empowering, confidence-building book. From suggested places to meet people to advice on body language and sure-fire conversation openers, this is the book that will take the mystery out of meeting people and turn you into the success you've always wanted to be, You'll discover: How to decipher simple and complex body language - When to make a move - and when not to - What to do when you don't get the response you want - Where to meet prospective partners - in some of the most unexpected places - And much, much more! Buried deep inside each of us, a fun, flirtatious person is anxious to get out. No longer do you have to be the wallflower at the party, watching others mixing and mingling and meeting that absolutely fabulous person in the corner. In How to Attract Anyone, Anytime, Anyplace , Susan Rabin, a therapist who was a coordinator for Family Living/Sex Education for the New York City Board of Education, elucidates the principles of flirting--from body language to conversation tips to where to meet other singles--and helps to get you on your way to getting out there! This book is a playful read, although it's not as in-depth as some of the other romance self-help books (such as Leil Lowndes's How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You , which, while covering much of the same material, has a scientific basis at its core and tends to take itself a bit more seriously). Rabin concisely gives you the tools to gain the self-confidence necessary to meet Mr. or Ms. Right. The advice won't help you once you get to that first date, but the detailed explanation of the beginning steps will help you find the person to ask out. And if for reasons unknown, that person turns you down, Rabin also advises on how to deal with "no." Although a quiz in the beginning is supposed to enable you to determine what type of flirt you are (for example, a self-centered flirt, the analytical flirt, or the pressured flirt), Rabin doesn't spend much time exploring what this means for individuals or how to overcome specific flaws. Instead, How to Attract Anyone, Anytime, Anyplace deals more with generalities: each chapter gives a heart-shaped bulleted list of tips under categories such as "How to Make Your Own Luck" and "Tips from a Master Flirt." The one chapter that does venture into the territory of psychology--"Don't Be Your Own Worst Enemy"--is a bit cursory and unsatisfying. Overall, though, this guide is ideal for the beginner who honestly feels that there's nowhere to go to meet new people and feels utterly hopeless when faced with a stranger. Before you know it, Rabin will help you feel like a flirt extraordinaire! --Jenny Brown Susan Rabin, MA, is a relationship therapist, flirting coach, and founder of schoolofflirting.com. Her books, How to Attract Anyone, Anytime, Anyplace and 101 Ways to Flirt, teach you the flirting skills. Susan has appeared in numerous talk shows including Oprah, Letterman, O'Reilly, and has appeared in Cosmopolitan, the New York Times, and People Magazine. HOW TO ATTRACT ANYONE, ANYTIME, ANYPLACE FLIRTING – HOW TO DO IT What better way is there to start a relationship than to flirt? In this innovative book you’ll learn the fine art of relating to others and attracting them to you, and you’ll soon be making connections—instead of excuses. Expert flirt Susan Rabin will teach you:  How to make eye contact and the “flirting triangle” work for you  How to master the five “W’s” of (not-so) small talk  The best way to start and end a good conversation  How to make techniques like the “echo,” the “third ear,” and the “three R’s” work for you  How to turn self-denial and self-destruction into self-esteem and self-support  The best way to handle the sting of rejection and get back in the saddle  How to end a relationship with Mr. or Ms. Not-Quite-Right and still respect yourself in the morning. SUSAN G. RABIN , M.A., is a relationship therapist, communication and flirting coach, international speaker, and president of Dynamic Communications, Inc., a company dedicated to making relationships work and is director of The School of Flirting®. She appears frequently on radio and television, including The Oprah Winfrey Show, The Today Show, Good Morning America, The O’Reilly Report , as well as on the Learning Channel and CNN. Susan was the former Family Living/Sex Education Coordinator for the New York City Board of Education and is also the author of 101 Ways to Flirt and Lucky in Love (both available in a Plume edition). She lives and works in New York City. BARBARA LAGOWSKI is a former editor and the author of fourteen books. Visit www.dynamiccommunications.com and www.schoolofflirting.com Also by Susan Rabin with Barbara Lagowski :