I’m Not Hard to Love, You’re Just Lazy: Boundaries, Self-Respect, and the Freedom of Not Overgiving

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by Patrice Brown

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You’re not hard to love. You’re just done overgiving. This book is for women who love deeply, show up consistently, and are finally tired of being taken for granted — not because they’re bitter, but because they’ve grown. I break down the truth many women learn the hard way: boundaries aren’t walls, they’re filters. This isn’t a breakup book or a rant about love. It’s a grounded, honest guide to emotional maturity, self-respect, and choosing peace without becoming cold. Written from the perspective of a happily married woman who understands what healthy love actually looks like, this book explores: Why effort is the bare minimum, not a bonus - How to stop over-explaining and start standing firm - The difference between fighting for someone and fighting for your place - Why silence can be a boundary, not a punishment - How to love fully without losing yourself With humor, clarity, and real-life wisdom, this book helps you stop auditioning for affection and start honoring your worth — in every relationship, at every stage of life. This isn’t about cutting people off. It’s about choosing yourself with confidence.

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