Three straight championship games. Three losses. Most coaches call that failure. I call it formation. In a world obsessed with records, rings, and NFL résumés, this book flips the script. It’s not about chasing trophies — it’s about faithfulness over outcomes, character over accolades, and the quiet victories that outlast any scoreboard. I was fired after a 10–2 season at UCLA. I hit bottom more than once. But each setback pushed me into deeper purpose — building systems that protected young athletes, coaching future greats at EXOS, and walking with players whose lives mattered far beyond the field. This isn’t a book about winning. It’s a book about becoming . If you've ever questioned your path, wrestled with setbacks, or wondered what success truly looks like, this story will change the way you measure your life — and your impact.