From the editor of the  New York Times ' popular "Modern Love" column―the inspiration for the anthology tv series starring Tina Fey, Andy Garcia, Anne Hathaway, Catherine Keener, Dev Patel, and John Slattery―the story of love from beginning to end (or not). Love. We want it. We need it. We pay it homage with songs and poems and great works of art. And when we lose it, there's no pain as intense or excruciating. For centuries we've been trying to figure it out, control it, or just get better at it. As the editor of a column about love for the  New York Times , Daniel Jones reads thousands of stories about people's intimate relationships―the ones that soar, crash, or hum along, from the bizarre to the supposedly “normal.” It's possible that he's read more true love stories than anyone on earth. In  Love Illuminated , he teases apart this mystifying emotion that thrills, crushes, and sustains. Drawing from the 50,000 stories that have crossed his desk over the past decade, Jones explores ten aspects of love―pursuit, destiny, vulnerability, connection, trust, practicality, monotony, infidelity, loyalty, and wisdom―and creates a lively, funny and enlightening journey through this universal human experience that jangles the head and stirs the heart.  Praise for Daniel Jones: “Affecting and wise.” - Vanity Fair “[The Bastard on the Couch] is meant in part for men like jones--decent, self-analyzing men who are doing their best to assist in the stewardship of household and families. It will be consumed . . . by the women who keep their company.” - New York Times “Bastard achieves the near impossible--finding 27 ‘real’ men who expose their marriages with brutal honesty and great humor. It’s a kiss and tell in guyspeak: older women, younger women, multiple women, affairs, fatherhood and fidelity. Stay-at-home dads, the castrated husband, guys who lie and guys who (don’t fall off your chair) can’t commit--all share what they’re actually thinking and feeling, especially what it’s like to be a man in an era of increasingly powerful women.” - Chicago Sun-Times “Daniel Jones has assembled a host of sharp male writers…to tell their side of the story. Sake-fueled back-alley lovemaking, the highs and lows of full-time fathering, the toxic effects that a wife’s unbridled anger has on her husband and kids, and the curious, ignominious sensation that comes with counseling an ex-wife’s current husband on how to handle his impending divorce are just a few of the subject they examine with hawkeyed honesty.” - Elle “A provocative, insightful, and deeply humane meditation on ‘life’s most mystifying subject’... Jones ... proves an exceptional guide -- droll, compassionate, nonjudgmental -- through all of love’s many phases.” - Elle “A hip, nonjudgmental survey of every kind of love under the sun…there are countless tales of encouragement.” - New York Times Book Review As the editor of the New York Times ' popular Modern Love column, Daniel Jones is privy to the deepest personal revelations of tens of thousands of strangers. In Love Illuminated , he uses his unique perspective to tease apart life's most mystifying subject. Drawing from the 50,000 tales of love that have crossed his desk, Jones traces the arc of human relationships through ten phases, starting with the pursuit, sense of destiny, vulnerability, connection, and trust of new love, and then turning to the practicality, monotony, infidelity, loyalty, and wisdom of love matured. With empathy and wry humor, he takes readers on an enlightening journey through the highs, lows, and enduring unknowns of this universal experience that rattles the head and stirs the heart. Daniel Jones has edited the Modern Love column in the Sunday Styles section of the New York Times since its inception in October 2004. His books include two essay anthologies, Modern Love and The Bastard on the Couch , and a novel, After Lucy , which was a finalist for the Barnes & Noble Discover Award. His writing has appeared in the New York Times , Elle , Parade , Real Simple , Redbook , and elsewhere. He lives in Northampton, Massachusetts, with his wife, writer Cathi Hanauer, and their two children.