Winner of the 2025 Housatonic Book Award for Nonfiction A riveting memoir about a daughter’s investigation into the wirings of her loving, unpredictable mother: a woman who lived her life in pursuit of the divine, and who started two big fires, decades apart. Ten years before Nina was born, her mother lit herself on fire in a dual suicide attempt. During her recovery in the burn-unit, a nurse initiated her into Transcendental Meditation. From that day on, her mother's pain became intertwined with the pursuit of enlightenment. Growing up, Nina longed for a normal life; instead, she and her brother were at the whims of their mother, who chased ascension up and down the state of California, swapping out spiritual practices as often as apartments. When they finally settled at the foot of a mountain—reputed to be cosmic—in Northern California, Nina hoped life would stabilize. But after another fire, and a tragic fallout, she was forced to confront the shadow side of her mother's mystical narratives. With obsessive dedication, Nina began to knit together the truth that would eventually release her. In Love Is a Burning Thing , Nina interrogates what happens to those undiagnosed and unseen. This is a transfixing, moving portrait of a mother-daughter relationship that also examines mental health, stigma, poverty, and gender—and the role that spirituality plays within each. Nina’s writing skirts the mystical, untangles it, and ultimately illuminates it with brilliance. Most Anticipated by Esquire , Los Angeles Times , Bustle , Rumpus , Write or Die, and Alta Online "This beautiful memoir about longing for normalcy while being buffeted by the whims of an unstable mother is perfect for fans of Mary Karr or stories about surviving difficult childhoods" — People , "Best Books to Read in May 2024" “This debut memoir is a daughter’s reckoning: a quest to understand her mystery of a mother, an exploration of mysticism and untreated mental illness, and an indictment of the systems that failed their family…St. Pierre and I grew up in the same remote corner of the west, but you don’t need to know it in order to appreciate the descriptions that add lush texture to this searching, empathetic narrative.” — Esquire , "Best Memoirs of 2024" “A kaleidoscopic, illuminating reflection on mental health, poverty, gender, and spirituality.” — Bustle , “Spring’s Most Anticipated Books” “An unforgettable portrait of a mother and her brilliant, honest, and searching daughter . . . I finished the book grateful to know Nina’s mother, both a model for living outside of the confines of society and for the toll that took.” —Sarah Blakley-Cartwright, Public Affairs “Love Is a Burning Thing seamlessly moves through the past, present, future all at once . . . By writing her mother’s story, by becoming the scribe of the family, St. Pierre creates a record of her mother’s life to be eternally remembered as that self-determined, free, femme, divine self she was while she was alive.” —Tanaïs, BOMB “By turns magnificent, terrifying, destructive and ultimately regenerative… Love Is a Burning Thing is a haunting read.” — Our Coast “Stark and emotionally raw, [ Love is a Burning Thing ] becomes increasingly warm and empathetic as Nina uncovers what made Anita the mother she was.” —Apple Books “St. Pierre crafts a vivid, richly textured, harrowing memoir of her bond, both steadfast and delicate, with her mother…St. Pierre emerges with a treatise for thinking about not only mental illness and family trauma, but also the ability of belief to alternately empower, embattle, and release. An exhilarating, heart-rending familial portrait.” — Kirkus, * starred review* “Essayist St. Pierre debuts with a haunting account of her complicated relationship with her mother…This is a beautifully written and often breathtaking examination of a difficult parent-child bond.” — Publishers Weekly “ Love is a Burning Thing is a spectacular, fearless memoir, written with real muscle and voice, guided by an electric eye for truth and compassion. I loved this book.” —Michelle Tea, author of Knocking Myself Up “Nina St. Pierre's effulgent prose is as fiery as the title itself: unrelenting, strong, and vast. You will be shocked at learning that this is St. Pierre's debut as she wields such a command on language and narrative with extreme sensitivity towards mental illness, social inequities, and of course, the bond she had with her late mother that you'd believe she were a veteran in the world of arts and letters.” —Morgan Jerkins, New York Times bestselling author "This book is like molten lava rushing down a slope, burning away everything in its path: dangerous and wild and unstoppable, and awe-strikingly beautiful. Love is a Burning Thing is a testament to the life-defining and sometimes life-shattering mother-daughter bond; a free dive into the depths of mysticism and mental illness, and the slippery, disor