From the bestselling author of Lucky —a Reese Witherspoon Book Club pick—comes a captivating novel that explores marriage, motherhood, identity, and what it takes to love someone—family members, friends, or spouses—for life. Former folk singer Helen Sear was a feminist wild child who proudly disdained monogamy, raising three daughters—each by a different father—largely on her own. Now in her sixties, Helen has fallen in love with a traditional man who desperately wants to marry her. And while she fears losing him, she’s equally afraid of abandoning everything she’s ever stood for if she goes through with it. Meanwhile, Helen’s youngest daughter, Liane, is in the heady early days of a relationship with her soul mate. But he has an ex-wife and two kids, and her new role as a “step-something” doesn’t come with an instruction manual. Ilsa, an artist, has put her bohemian past behind her and is fervently hoping her second marriage will stick. Yet her world feels like it is slowly shrinking, and her painting is suffering as a result—and she realizes she may need to break free again, even if it means disrupting the lives of her two young children. And then there’s Fiona, the eldest sister, who has worked tirelessly to make her world pristine, yet who still doesn’t feel at peace. When she discovers her husband has been harboring a huge secret, Fiona loses her tenuous grip on happiness and is forced to face some truths about herself that she’d rather keep buried. Interweaving the alternating perspectives of Helen, her daughters, and the women surrounding them, “each new chapter brings a wise and tender look at single life, dating rituals, and marital unease” ( New York Times bestselling author Jennifer Close). In this “absolute feat of storytelling” (bestselling author Grace O'Connell), Marissa Stapley celebrates the many roles modern women play, and shows that even though happy endings aren’t one-size-fits-all, some loves really can last for life. Helen Sear, a feminist folksinger who was famous in the late 1960s, actively disdained marriage, raising her three daughters—all with different fathers—on her own. Now that the sisters are grown, each struggles mightily with relationships. Liane, the youngest, is in love but isn’t sure she can handle the role of being “step” anything to her boyfriend’s daughters. Middle daughter Ilsa is contemplating leaving her second husband and two young children behind to pursue her art. Stay-at-home mom Fiona, the eldest, seems to be the one who has life wrapped up all nice and neat, until her husband drops a bombshell. Added to the mix is Helen herself, who has fallen in love with a man who wants a traditional relationship—meaning marriage. She is giving it serious consideration, much to the consternation of her daughters. Stapley alternates the narrative among the characters, including two peripheral women, and interweaves events from each woman’s life. There are a few too many characters and subplots, but this novel does a fine job of exploring the complexities of modern relationships. --Rebecca Vnuk "Told from multiple points of view as the characters walk tightropes of tragedy, this intriguing and heartbreaking debut novel carefully illustrates the power that each of us has to define who we are and who we can become." ― Publishers Weekly "An absorbing and entertaining meditation on romantic love, but, even more so, on the nature of motherhood and sisterhood." ― Maclean's “Heartbreaking and strikingly honest. Stapley challenges entrenched ideas of what it means to be a wife and mother, explores how modern women often struggle to maintain their own identities in the face of societal expectations, [and] excels at bringing the reader into the lives of these women.” ― Quill & Quire “No, this is not a happily-ever-after tale. Nevertheless, Stapley is gentle and nonjudgmental with her characters, and readers…will find themselves pulling for them all.” ― Kirkus "This novel does a fine job of exploring the complexities of modern relationships.” ― Booklist "A beautiful and honest story." ― Working Mother “The women in Mating for Life are clever, honest, funny, and forever analytical as they stumble through the search for love. Each new chapter brings a wise and tender look at single life, dating rituals, and marital unease. This is one of the most charming novels I’ve read in years, and I loved every last page.” -- Jennifer Close ― bestselling author of Girls in White Dresses "Marissa Stapley makes a brilliant debut with Mating for Life. This intricate story of mothers and daughters, of family secrets and the devastation of infidelity, works an irresistible spell as it shatters apart three sisters' lives and then gathers the pieces together again, one by one. Acute and richly moving, Mating for Life triumphantly reaffirms the power of female relationships." -- Beatriz Williams ― New York Times bestselling author of A Hundred Summers "Heartwarming