Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision follows the journey and process of a young girl named Nina in making a difficult decision. She meets each one of her closest eight friends to ask for their advice and input on how they make decisions, so she can learn from them and then better make her own decision. Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision is designed to teach readers and listeners about the nine different archetypal personality orientations inherent in all of us, and the understanding that while each approach is valid, bringing them all together is even more powerful and enlightening. Important messages about diversity and inclusion are also woven into the story line as Nina speaks with each of her friends. And the beautiful illustrations by AminaYaqoob present a rich opportunity to explore a deeper understanding of each perspective and type presented through Nina’s questioning each of her eight friends. Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision increases children's emotional intelligence, specifically through the awareness, understanding, and importance of diversity of perspective and motivation, using the powerful Enneagram model without explicitly introducing it as such. "Nina is usually calm and relaxed but now she has to make a difficult decision. After taking a nap, she decides to call on her friends for help. Juan could help as he always did the right thing, taking his parents and their values into account. Thuy always considered other people's feelings and how her decisions would affect them. Trace always based his decisions on how they would help him to achieve his goals. Ford was always true to himself and his individuality was important to him in making decisions. Sissy always made sure that she was safe and her decisions were based on her personal security. Sven would consider all his options before making a decision to ensure that he took everything into account. Cate had a strong sense of justice and would always protect her friends. Nina realized that she had incredible friends, each with their own unique strength. Author R. Karl Hebenstreit has created a magnificent tool for educating children when faced with difficult decisions, as does Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision. This interesting little book is a must for all children. In addition to the story of Nina and her friends, author R. Karl Hebenstreit also includes a guide to decision-making and questions for the reader to answer. Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision teaches readers about the different archetypal personality orientations and creates an awareness of each. Bringing these various personalities together helps us to understand diversity and the benefits thereof. Emotional intelligence is an important skill for everyone to learn and practice, especially in our technology-filled world. The book is beautifully illustrated and well-written. I highly recommend it for all children - and some adults." --Natalie Soine, Readers' Favorite " Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision is a perfect introduction to the nine enneagram types and how they interact with the world. It's great for opening Discussion but is also a wonderful reminder of varied perspectives at any age. I wish I had this when I was starting conversations about the enneagram with my little one." —Sarajane Case, author of The Honest Enneagram , speaker and podcaster at Enneagram and Coffee "This book is a great helpmate for parents, counselors, and educators who work with children. This is a sweet, creative way of introducing children to one of the most profound insights offered by the Enneagram-one that many of us learn much later in life: not everyone sees the world (and thus makes their decisions) through the same lens as we do! That we are better decision-makers when we can integrate (in Nina's case, "befriend") others' perspectives is a lesson that can, moreover, benefit children AND adults alike." -- Nhien Vuong, J.D., M.Div., Founder of Evolving Enneagram "This charming book is a creative and wonderful way to teach children and adults alike the different ways people view the world. It is so easy to assume that others think the same way we do, and of course, this is not the case! Through the example of Nina's eight other friends, she discovers a world of diversity, and ways of problem solving that were unknown to her. For readers of any age, Nina and the Really, Really Tough Decision is a thoughtful and encouraging way to deepen our appreciation of diversity, accepting and valuing each other's differences, and growing in our ability to understand the ways in which we are unique, special, and have our own role to play in the world." --Maloah Stillwater, MFT, Expressive Arts therapist, Mindfulness Meditation teacher, founder of The Center for Loving Awareness, Maui, HI This is such an insightful and delightful book that takes the reader on a journey to see how Nina will solve her decision making dilemma. The book is