Oh… So Now You Think You’re Grown?! – A Real-Talk Guide to Confidence, Self-Love, and Becoming the Woman You’re Meant to Be At eighteen, every girl swears she’s grown — the walk, the talk, the attitude all scream “I’m grown!” But here’s the truth: real grown-woman energy isn’t about a birthday, it’s about mindset, confidence, and the lessons life throws at you. In Oh… So Now You Think You’re Grown?! , author and motivator Shanelle Sara’Nita becomes your unapologetic big sister, sharing real-life stories and empowering advice to help you step into adulthood with purpose, confidence, and clarity. This is the ultimate guide for teen girls, young women, and recent grads who want to: Discover your purpose and create a vision for your future - Build unstoppable self-confidence and authentic self-love - Master time management and money skills that set you up for success - Navigate friendships, dating, and boundaries without losing yourself - Upgrade your image, attitude, and goals to match your dreams Every chapter ends with guided self-reflection questions designed to help you uncover who you are and what you want out of life — so you’re not just “getting older,” you’re leveling up. Whether you’re in high school, college, or finding your way in your 20s, this motivational and inspiring read will make you laugh, think, and walk away ready to own your grown-woman journey. If you love straight-up life advice, empowering girl talk, and a little tough love, this book is for you.