"Our Home: Building A Legacy of Love" by Cindy H. Carr is a heartfelt, faith-centered guide to building resilient marriages and families, published in 2025 by CHC Connect. Drawing from over four decades of marriage to her husband Dubby, ministry experience, and personal trials—including early conflicts, a painful affair, and capacity shifts—Carr offers practical wisdom for couples navigating differences without division. The book emphasizes that love is a skill to be learned, practiced, and chosen, rooted in Scripture like 1 Corinthians 13, rather than mere emotion. Structured in 15 chapters plus an epilogue and appendix, it begins with foundational ideas: embracing God's design for differences (Chapter 1), challenging assumptions (Chapter 2), and fostering unity amid disagreement (Chapter 3). Carr introduces tools like reframing—shifting from accusation to curiosity—to protect dignity and connection. Subsequent chapters explore love languages and lenses (Chapter 4), stress-induced "shadow" behaviors (Chapter 5), and communication for shared goals (Chapter 7). Parenting styles, financial/time/capacity frictions, fair conflict, boundaries (especially with extended family), forgiveness, individual space, family agreements, and legacy-building round out the content. Carr's approach is compassionate yet direct, blending personal anecdotes, prayers, and reframes to address real-life tensions. She warns against contempt, global labels, and unresolved pain, advocating quick repairs, mutual support, and intentional rituals like weekly check-ins. The appendix, "The Our Home Tool Kit," provides chapter-specific exercises, scripts, and questions for implementation, encouraging readers to read sequentially or thematically. At its core, the book reframes marriage as "sacred history"—a practiced "us" where differences strengthen rather than fracture. It's for couples in any season, promoting humility, empathy, and God-anchored growth without moralizing or perfectionism. Carr's vulnerability fosters hope: homes aren't defined by failures but by persistent repair and honor. Ideal for Christian readers seeking actionable, non-judgmental advice, it inspires legacies of steady love in an imperfect world.