Shamieka Dean wrote the vision and made it plain. She knew exactly what she wanted in her husband, from the way he dressed to the way he made her laugh. When God brought her king into her world in July 2005, all of her expectations were exceeded. Shamieka was at an all-time high when she said those legendary words, “I DO.” She got her king and they were living the dream, until Valentine’s Day 2012, when Shamieka went to her mailbox, and opened an envelope to only read, “FINAL DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE.” She had married the man she prayed for, only to end up in divorce court seven years later. She was in overwhelming pain, disappointment, anger, and full of fear. She was now a divorced-single mother with three children. Shamieka asked God one question, “How did we get here?” He replied, “You were a single-married woman.” Shamieka realized in that moment, the words “I DO” only changed her last name when she married her king. In this thought-provoking, gut-wrenching book, you will see how Shamieka Dean, also known as the Queen of Restoration, went from divorced to marrying her king a second time. Shamieka Dean, the Queen of Restoration, in her Real, Raw & Relatable style, gives you a transparent look into the journey of restoration of her marriage AFTER DIVORCE! Marriage has a formula, and Shamieka Dean, the Queen of Restoration, takes you through a step-by-step process to achieving a successful marriage. Shamieka will take you through the process of learning •How to overcome the fears most single women face •How to attract the man you’ve been praying for•How to confidently know if he’s “the one” •How to defeat divorce courtAllow yourself the chance to enter the world of, Positioning Yourself to be a Wife. I have to give this book or shall I say guide to the alter two thumbs up. Not only gets you to the alter but helps you to maintain your marriage after the alter. This was a fantastic real and relatable read! Positioning yourself to be a wife gives you important and valuable information but also in depth personal situations that can't help but draw you in. From start to finish Mrs. Dean keeps you wanting to read more and more all while dropping you those priceless golden nuggets that you'll keep in your mind a lifetime. Great book!! Worth the buy! --Tameka Coleman I honestly don t know where to start as there are so many avenues...so here goes. Shamieka has done what I have never seen in ANY Christian book. She opened herself ALL the way up and revealed and shared every kink in her armor. From the childhood trauma to adulthood trauma, Shamieka made it clear that she was a broken woman. But through her brokenness, she pointed us back to God, always. She showed God to us even in the darkest moments of her life. Shamieka made clear that she was and isn t perfect, but she serves a perfect God, One who always was and will always be with us in every situation. She taught us biblical truths through the mistakes and bad decisions she made. I resonated so deeply with Shamieka s experiences as I m sure other women will. This book is truly filled with a gold mine of nuggets. There isn t just one quote or statement that stood out to me because everything did...but I would say this one struck me a bit as I saw myself in it The enemy is not your husband, but the real enemy may be using your husband to come against you because he wants to cause division in your home. He wants to kill your confidence, steal your joy, and destroy your marriage. He wants to destroy the head so the body will be uncovered. It s easier to attack the body when the head is not covering it. This is my second marriage. My first marriage was destroyed for various reasons, one big one being I had made him my enemy. And even now, I see so many areas in my own marriage that can be improved. It doesn t matter if you re single, a newlywed, or have been married through the decades, there is something to get from this book. Positioning Yourself To Be a Wife is more than a how to or self-help book. It is a book that strives to reach out and save marriages and to do it God s way. My prayer is that women of all walks of life read the book AND appropriate change to the areas that needs to be changed. --Lucrecia Slater Shamieka, this book is so powerful that I couldn't even read it at work without tearing up. I have to read it at home and even then, I have tears in my eyes because I can relate to a lot of things in this book. I am not finished yet, but this book is very powerful and it will heal a lot of women, even me. I didn't know it was going to be that powerful either but I can tell that God was all in the midst when you were writing this book. --Crystal Ramsey Known as the "Queen of Restoration," Shamieka Dean is a realistic relationship and purpose coach, innovative entrepreneur, a powerful speaker, a successful author. Her standout quality is her ability to give you the Real, Raw & Relatable truth on success in love, life and business using her keen proph