Emptiness is our appetite for meaning and purpose. Sometimes Christians get lost or sidetracked and give up as they find themselves defeated and untouched by their Christian faith. Many Christians feed their emptiness in two major ways: unhealthy relationships or intense, acting out behavior. This book is written with the hope that the reader may learn how to become integrated within him or herself by learning to become integrated in Christ. James Dauer understand that Jesus Christ is both the icon of a fully restored human being and the true way for recovering our own humanity. His book will help many discover Christ as the healer of souls. Pastor Brian Zahnd, Author of: Beauty Will Save the World: Rediscovering the Allure and Mystery of Christianity . James Dauer is one of those rare individuals who has managed to bridge the profoundly disconnected fields of relational psychology, and contemporary and ancient spirituality. With a gifted intellectual and caring Christian heart, this effective mental health counselor has written an insightful and compelling book. I highly recommend the book to those suffering from self-destructive behaviors, as well as to their parents and to mental health professionals. Dr. Elmer M. Colyer Professor of Systematic Theology The University of Dubuque Theological Seminary James Dauer is a straight shooter who gets to the heart of the matter from the very beginning. Through this book James gives everyday, practical advice and examples. As I read it, I felt like I had met the characters personally. James gives us the way forward with them and with ourselves. If we look honestly, we can really learn how to find the direction for our journey Pastor Dan Kellog, Gold Creek Community Church, Mill Creek, Washington