This revolutionary guide offers an alternative to stumbling blindly, outlining the ideal mindset for confident men and opening a new era in men's perception of dating and interacting with women. " He might have broken the code!" -- The Palm Beach Post, December 2003 " there are some good lessons to be learned in these pages." -- Williston Pioneer Sun News, February 2004 Bradley Fenton is president of Bradley Fenton Ventures (BFV), a training firm that works with individuals, companies and organizations concerned about strengthening their personal and professional relationships. BFV provides a variety of products and services ranging from the privacy of self-study courses on new strategies to ongoing reinforcement workshops and seminar training programs. www.bradleyfenton.com from Chapter 1 State of the "Union" Guys, who taught you how to interact with women? Until now, we men have had no clear source from which to gain factual and valid information on which practices bring about the best results with women. Information on the subject is confusing and fragmented at best. It is often based on the well-meaning advice of family members and friends who speak from emotions based on their own personal experiences, which may or may not be useful. Although dealing with women is a topic of vital importance, there are not many places for men to gain crucial information about it, other than confusing bits and pieces contained within magazines, television, and movies. Thousands of columns are published yearly in men's journals such as Maxim and GQ, exclaiming, "100 Tips That Drive Women Crazy!" While these articles are somewhat entertaining, they are often illogical and useless when it comes to real-life situations, and they're usually based on the advice of personal friends and associates of their respective authors instead of any kind of credible authority. Movies and television also play a significant yet confusing role in how we think we should act around women. Like it or not, actors such as Robert De Niro, Al Pacino, Jack Nicholson, Steve McQueen and Vince Vaughn are among those whose roles -- and sometimes personal lives -- have set a cultural benchmark on how we believe men should act and be perceived. After we watch their performances, we are left with the Big Question: What is it about these actors that is so attractive to women? We wonder how we can replicate it ourselves. Is the recipe to attraction simply good looks, fame and fortune? Or are there some other ingredients? Unfortunately, we're left to figure it out on our own. The hard truth is this: Our culture teaches men skills and tactics that are actually harmful to our success with women. It is our hope that when you've finished this book, you may be able to resolve most of the confusion you feel about this subject. You'll understand what makes men attractive to women, and you'll be able to put this into action in your own life in a constructive, satisfying way. Now more than ever, men need to gain a better understanding of what women want, and they need to develop the ability to deliver it to them. We need this information because many men are in a very serious predicament, one that often goes unspoken. Tens of thousands of sharp and talented men are stumbling naked in the dark. It's what I call men who are not getting their needs met. Love, sex and tactile needs are basic requirements we have as human beings but in today's fast-paced society, they often seem elusive. Many men go for months at a time without having a date, let alone having their physical needs satisfied. This unfortunate trend is a fast-growing one, contributed to by such factors as longer work hours and an increase in the average age at which men marry. This problem affects not only a lot of lonely and frustrated men but women as well. Used Book in Good Condition