In today's fast-paced world, where meals often double as meetings and social gatherings, the art of table manners is more than just a set of rules; it's a time-tested and powerful tool to help high achievers and disrupters thrive in elite society. From learning the silent language of cutlery, and how to eat a lobster, to choosing the perfect perfume for a first date, this guide will influence your personal brand and increase your wealth. Etiquette is the strategy, and manners are the tactic. Saideh Brown is a third generation estate sale executive, author, and influential speaker who has been curating homes, lifestyles and legacies since 2003. She is best known as the owner of Manor & Vintage, a global estate sale brokerage. She is President Emeritus of the National Concil of Women at the United Nations.