Every marriage will be tested—but not every marriage must be destroyed. In The Marriage Refinery , Dr. Joe Ewegbeje blends biblical wisdom and psychological insight to show how conflict, disappointment, and trials can become the very fire that forges enduring love. Drawing from decades of pastoral counseling and therapeutic experience, Dr. Ewegbeje invites couples to see their struggles not as punishments but as pathways to grace. Through six transformative movements—Seeing Conflict Differently, Trials Are Meant for Good, Standing Individually Under Christ, Grace in the Fire, Making the Most of Conflict, and Turning Tests into Testimonies—couples learn how to transform pain into purpose and weakness into witness. With practical tools, reflection prompts, and prayerful guidance, The Marriage Refinery equips readers to: Reframe conflict as an opportunity for spiritual and emotional growth. - Practice forgiveness that restores instead of erasing boundaries. - Anchor individually in Christ while remaining united as one. - Turn scars into stories that strengthen future generations. - Rise higher together through grace that never fails. Whether you are newly married or decades in, this handbook will help you build not just a marriage that survives—but one that shines with covenant resilience. “Marriage is not destroyed by the storms of life, but by forgetting Who stands with you in them.” If your marriage is in the fire, this book will help you find the beauty being refined within it.