Modern men are struggling—and most don’t know why. Divorce rates are rising. Masculinity is confused. Purpose feels distant. Too many men feel blamed, replaceable, or lost in a world that no longer explains what is expected of them. The Modern Man’s Blueprint is a practical self-help guide for men who want to rebuild confidence, discipline, strength, and direction in modern life. Drawing on decades of lived experience and millions of real conversations through the Ask An Older Man platform, Paul M. Aiken explains why modern masculinity collapsed—and how men can rise again without ideology, politics, or empty motivation. This book covers: Masculinity, purpose, and male identity - Relationships, divorce, and emotional strength - Discipline, fitness, leadership, and self-respect - Why modern men feel lost—and how to regain direction This is not a dating guide. Not a political manifesto. Not a book about blaming women. It is a clear blueprint for becoming a grounded, capable man—one other men respect, women respond to, and families can rely on. If you’re searching for confidence, clarity, and direction as a modern man, this book is your manual.