In The Soulmate Path , Farber and Zerner describe the path they walk every day. It's a path that any of us can walk, whether we're looking for love or looking to improve the relationship we're in. In Part One, a moving, insightful, frank, and often funny account, they share their own stories--from meeting and falling in love, to beginning to work together, to dealing with the stresses and challenges that inevitably occur. With every story and at each step of their journey, they offer readers secrets to practice in their own lives. Part Two offers readers 36 lessons to remember when attracting and developing a relationship. Because Monte and Amy are so wellknown for their oracles, they also made a way for the reader to consult these lessons to answer questions they may have, following the principle that the Universe gives us what we need. And, in Part Three, the couple share what may be the single most important aspect of traveling the soulmate paththe art of laughter. In all of their work, Monte and Amy create a unique and sacred synergy that heals, inspires, and empowers. The source of Amy & Monte's inspiration is their love for each other, and that love causes them to produce wondrous works together that makes my jaw drop." -- Richard N. Bolles , Author of What Color is Your Parachute? "Amy and Monte are the only two practitioners I have met who are able to bring the teaching of truth in ALL of their divinely led creations." --James Van Praagh, author of Talking To Heaven --reviewer "They are the epitome of 'soulmates.'" -- Bodhi Tree Bookstore --review Monte Farber is, with his wife, artist;fashion designer Amy Zerner, the author of a series of bestselling self-help books with more than two million copies in print in fourteen languages. Since 1988, the Brooklynborn Farber has used his friendly, humorous, downtoearth approach to what he calls "streetsmart spirituality" to train people around the world to improve their intuition and decisionmaking abilities. Says Farber, "The common denominator of all humancaused suffering is poor decision making and it is my mission to reduce that suffering as much as I can. I've already made a difference but Quantum Affirmations will help me make that quantum leap!" His websites are www.MonteFarber.com and www.TheEnchantedWorld.com. Amy Zerner and Monte Farber are a bestselling husband and wife team whose many projects have sold millions of copies worldwide. Their expertise and straightforward but lighthearted approach to oracular wisdom is highly sought after, and Amy's work is in the collections of numerous corporations and prominent individuals like Shirley MacLaine, Oprah, and Martha Stewart. Together they have been guests on morning shows like ABC TV's Eyewitness News Sunday, FOX TV's "Good Day" New York, L.A., Atlanta, and Detroit. Join them at www.theenchantedworld.com The Soulmate Path By Monte Farber, Amy Zerner Red Wheel/Weiser, LLC Copyright © 2010 Monte Farber and Amy Zerner All rights reserved. ISBN: 978-1-57863-471-2 Contents What It Takes, by Arielle FordDreams In This Life, On This Earth, by Richard BollesIntroduction: Enchantment 'R' UsPart One Finding LoveOne: Finding Love If You Are AloneTwo: Finding Love with Someone You LikeThree: Spiritual SexFour: Loving ChildrenFive: Unrequited LoveSix: How Not to Find Your SoulmateSeven: Obstacles on the Road to EnchantmentEight: How to Meet Your SoulmateNine: How We Got EngagedPart Two Lessons of LightTen: Lessons of Light: An Oracle in a BookAffirmationsPart Three The Art of LaughterEleven: Humor MeTwelve: Our Enchanted World—Welcome to It!Thirteen: The Perfect 22nd/25th Anniversary to a Perfect WeddingFourteen: Life Is But a DreamAppendix: The Secrets: The ABCs of The Soulmate Path CHAPTER 1 Finding Love If You Are Alone (Hint: We all are alone, so read this chapter!) Some people enjoy living with one person or more. Yet it is obvious that somepeople like to live alone, even some of the ones who say they desperately wantsomeone to share their life with. In the free world, we're privileged with the choice to explore all availableaspects of life, if and when we so desire. We can choose to accept theconventional wisdom about our possibilities, given the circumstances of ourbirth and beyond, or we can choose to blaze a new trail and create newdefinitions of what is possible. The meaning of your life is to give your life meaning. In our search to find ourspecial gifts and to use them, everyone has to go through different phases inlife that may alternate between desires to be either social or solitary. Webelieve that everyone should live alone for a time. Living alone may prove to bethe best way for you to bring your Soulmate into your life and the lives youtouch. It is a pity when someone does not realize that living alone is just as valid achoice for a life of quality and meaning as a life lived with a Soulmate in thenext room. We feel extremely fortunate, bless