As Nora Samaran writes, “violence is nurturance turned backwards.” In its place, she proposes “nurturance culture” as the opposite of rape culture, suggesting that models of care and accountability—different from “call-outs” rooted in the politics of guilt—can move toward dismantling systems of dominance and oppression. When communities identify and interrupt systemic violence, prioritize the needs of those harmed, and hold a circle of belonging that humanizes everyone, they create a foundation that can begin to resist and repair the harms inflicted by patriarchy, white supremacy, and capitalism. Emerging from insights in gender studies, race theory, and psychology, and influenced by contemporary social movements, Turn This World Inside Out engages today's crucial questions, helping move us beyond seemingly intractable barriers to collective change. Includes the essays “The Opposite of Rape Culture Is Nurturance Culture,” “On Gaslighting,” and “Own, Apologize, Repair,” as well as conversations with Serena Bhandar, Ruby Smith Díaz, Aravinda Ananda, Natalie Knight, and Alix Johnson. "Nora Samaran writes with a unique combination of compassion and intelligence on the most pressing topic of our time. I’m convinced that if every person read her words, the world would be a much better place." —Liz Plank, journalist and executive producer of Divided States of Women “ Turn This World Inside Out is doing something unique and visionary.” —Wayde Compton, Author of After Canaan and The Outer Harbour “ Turn This World Inside Out is a must-have for educators, parents, counselors, and all members of the community who are working to transform structural harm.” —Agustina Vidal and Maryse Mitchell-Brody, The Icarus Project, New York "Nora Samaran writes with a unique combination of compassion and intelligence on the most pressing topic of our time. I’m convinced that if every person read her words, the world would be a much better place." —Liz Plank, journalist and executive producer of Divided States of Women “ Turn This World Inside Out is doing work in an area that is highly topical, in a way that I, for one, have never seen before. This book is doing something unique and visionary. A lot of writing is visionary about something, but this book is visionary about something that, at this moment, is on everyone's mind. In book form, it could reach a lot of people.” — Wayde Compton, Author of After Canaan and The Outer Harbour , Creative Writing Program Director at The Writer’s Studio, Simon Fraser University, Vancouver, BC. “ Turn this World Inside Out is a must-have for educators, parents, counselors, and all members of the community who are working to transform structural harm. … Using accessible language, Turn This World Inside Out lays out the social forces that perpetuate harm, and provides essential language to help start difficult conversations. This book offers us more than insight into the problem of structural harm; it also offers a part of the remedy and is thus essential reading for everyone who wants to shift to a culture of healing, nurturance, and love.” —Agustina Vidal and Maryse Mitchell-Brody, The Icarus Project, New York Nora Samaran is the pseudonym of Naava Smolash, a faculty member in the English department at Douglas College. Her writing appears in academic and popular publications including Studies in Canadian Literature , West Coast Line , Briarpatch , and the University of Toronto Quarterly . The answer to all of these difficulties is to openly discuss nurturance: how it looks, how it feels, how men can learn to practice it from the men who already know how, in addition to communicating through women or fumbling around for years learning by trial and error. Simplistic answers gleaned through this fumbling do not help. For instance, some men may actually avoid nurturing or protecting women out of fear of “white knighting.” But white knighting isn’t synonymous with all forms of protection. White knighting means acting protective in ways that aren’t attuned. Paternalistically telling her what she needs instead of listening to what she says is white knighting. To stop white knighting, don’t stop protecting; just protect while you also listen and believe. Protect her, actively, in the ways she actually wants protecting and not in the ways she does not. Protecting people you care about—in ways that are attuned and responsive to their actual needs—is a normal, needed, and healthy part of nurturance. Why is there no high-profile institute for men teaching nurturance skills to men? Men need to do this work with other men—not alone, but in addition to working in accountable social relationships with women. In other words, men who are learning must continue to learn as they have been doing, but then share that learning with one another. Further, our research and education institutions need to recognize this work as valuable, rewardable labor. It may be a long time before a nurturing masculin