STRATEGIZE. DATE. EVALUATE. DECIDE. Smart women don’t leave love to chance. They approach it with logic, purpose, and a touch of lip gloss. In Unapologetically Loved , attorney and engineer turned author, Monika N. Harris-Guillory, shares her refreshingly strategic approach to modern dating for professional women. From her legendary “Cheers-style” bar meetups to her data-driven first date evaluations, Monika didn’t just hope for love, she designed it. Inside, you’ll discover her signature D.A.T.E.R.™ System , a high-functioning formula for building intentional connections without compromising who you are. You'll learn how to: Define your desired relationship with clarity and confidence - Assemble your strategy using real-world logistics, wardrobe routines, and vetted venues - Test, Evaluate, and Decide using Monika’s repeatable dating loop to avoid wasting time - Apply the Partner Selection Protocol™ when you're narrowing it down to the final few contenders - Practice due diligence without losing your feminine power This book doesn’t just tell you what to do, it shows you how. With fun, practical case studies and witty lessons drawn from Monika’s own dating journey, you’ll gain the tools to stop overthinking and start attracting high-quality partnership on your terms. Whether you’re newly single, seasoned in love, or still believing for your person, this book proves that love isn’t luck, it’s strategy.