I struggled for over thirty years to recover from the trauma of my husband’s sexual addiction, and I continue to work on my recovery one day at a time. Here is my important message: recovery and peace are possible. It is my hope that this book will help you find . . . - A pathway to healing - Hope in the present and in your future - An understanding of what real recovery looks and feels like This path to peace includes: -Recognizing that there is no way but through -Setting boundaries is the most loving thing I can do -Forgiveness is not the same as trust -I can’t, but He (God) can, and I will let Him -Having gratitude in the present moment -Self-care is His care -I’ll row my own boat -I can live happily. . . one day at a time Read a compelling story of courage told with refreshing honesty. This can be a valuable resource to anyone navigating their way through a partner’s sexual addiction. — Dorothy Maryon, LPC, therapist specializing in sexual addiction recovery This book taught me how to respond to my husband’s addiction in a way that has provided true healing. I found peace in these pages. — Stephanie H. This unique book not only provides a powerful and authentic narrative about the gut wrenching realities surrounding a spouse’s pornography and sexual addiction, but it also illuminates a pathway to healing for anyone feeling shame, isolation, fear, or indescribable pain as they deal with this or similar issues. Rhyll dares to do what most people won’t; she leans into her vulnerabilities, has faith to see light in dark places, and musters courage to share all of it so that others may have hope. — Jill C. Manning, PhD, LMFT, author of What’s the Big Deal About Pornography and Let’s Talk About the Elephant in the Room Rhyll’s story is an unflinching and honest window into the pain that sexual addiction can cause. It represents three stories of learning and redemption as it explores Rhyll’s journey from anguish to understanding, Steven’s path from addiction to recovery, and their continued relational healing as a couple. The courage displayed by this remarkable couple should provide genuine hope to many as they discover that their own path to peace is reachable. — Donald L. Hilton Jr., MD, Author of He Restoreth My Soul This is much more than a personal or family experience with pornography. Rhyll shares invaluable principles for recognizing and communicating the personal need for setting healthy boundaries for physical, emotional, and spiritual safety and peace. Much has been learned in the past decade. The term “betrayal trauma” had not even been identified yet. The recovery climate has changed. Hope and healing is a real possibility. — Kathy Whitaker, RN, wife, mother, grandmothe Rhyll Anne Croshaw is a highly sought after speaker, having spoken at BYU Women's Conference and many community and church events on the subject of pornography, sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery. She and her husband Steven are the founders of SA Lifeline Foundation, a non-profit foundation dedicated to providing individuals, couples and families hope for recovery from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma through education, supporting SAL 12- Step recovery groups, encouraging spiritual guidance, and emphasizing qualified therapy. For more information go to SALifeline.org. Rhyll graduated from Brigham Young University at the relatively young age of 58, where she earned a BS degree in Family Life. A Piano and music teacher from the time she was 16, she still loves to use her talents and education in piano and choral instruction as often as possible. Rhyll has been married to Steven Croshaw for 50+ years and is the proud mother of 7 children and 29 grandchildren.